“What God intended for you go far beyond anything you can imagine.” Oprah Winfrey

I was in no way ready to date after I got my divorce, but that didn’t stop
me.  As I was trying to find myself, I continued to search for me through
other people.

One evening, I sat staring across the table into the face of someone I
barely knew, all I really wanted to do was to see my reflection even if it was
in the silverware on the table.  I wanted something to at least validate who
I was.  I had been hurt and deceived so much, that I was starting to doubt myself.

For three years, I had spent the majority of my time trying to make my
marriage work all by myself.  I didn’t realize that during the process I had
lost who I was.  Since I was not comfortable with myself, it was impossible
for me to be comfortable with someone else.  Many of my early relationships
lasted for a week or two. If I was lucky, they might last a month. Read the full story »

How easy is it for you to get back in a relationship after a breakup? For most people it is not the easiest thing to get back to. Some people are so apprehensive of the entire dating situation that they are turned off all together. Read the full story »

Here we go again it’s that time of year. Thanksgiving, Christmas and the New Year cheer. Are you really thankful? Will you be merry? My answer to those questions are sure you can and you will. A few suggestions are to surround yourself with good friends and family. Read the full story »

A young man walked a woman into the seminar room, kissed her on the cheek, and said, “I’ll pick you up at four o’clock.”

“How nice of your son to drop you off,” the seminar leader remarked. The attendee’s face grew rosy. “He’d be upset if he heard you call him my son,” she said. “He’s my boyfriend.” Read the full story »